2 years ago I suffered a detached retinal in the left eye due to ROP. My problem was compounded due to the other eye being an amblyopic eye. Until then I was a physicians assistant and worked for an orthopedic group in surgery and clinic. Initially the reparative surgery left me with 20.40 vision but the retina attempted to re-detach and subsequent surgeries have left me with a outcome of 20/400 in the left eye which was my dominate eye. I have gone through rehab services but now I am wondering what to do exactly with my life. I am not married as I was in the process of seeking a divorce on grounds of infidelity by my ex wife 3 months prior to my retinal detachment. I used to have an active social life prior to the events as well as a professional life. I was very active athletically as well, marathons, triathlons, cycling, kayaking. Because of my disability, I find myself ostracized by society and in dating relationships. The thought of having to return to college at my age, 49 presently does not appeal to me. I try to not become depressed for I still consider myself fortunate as compared to many others but I just feel I am stuck with no direction to move toward or an attainable goal. I have not been able to find counselors who specialize in vocational or psychological therapy dealing with visually impaired. Any suggestions on how to get my life back on track?

Can you get back to somewhat of an active lifestyle? I am sure with accomadations, you could get back to doing some of the things you love. That would be a good first step.

I am not sedentary but without a training partner who basically can be my eyes in cycling pretty hard to do on my own. I had hoped I would have received a response from the Big Guy but I guess since my thread does not contain any sex, sensationalism, drinking, hunting, etc to be considered for a review or comment. Not asking for sympathy, just some ideas, suggestions or advice.

Tough times. Sounds like you could use some counseling form a qualified pro.

The Big Guy hasn't been seen here in what a year or so. I even emailed him at an email address that I found online by Googling his name-still no reply.

We started a thread or two a few months back remarking about Head Coach's complete absence, even trying to provoke a reply from the moderators. Nothing.

These boards are not well maintained, you could say.

Dude, I'd give you ideas if I had any to give. I know stationary bikes suck, but that's better than nothing. Give spinning a try - I did a few classes and thought I was going to die. But then I'm a fat out of shape slob (or was more so then).