There are 17 years between us. She is younger, I am 47. Much as I would like to, I can't keep up with her sex drive. She is beautiful, has her masters and getting her Phd. She is more mature than me, and I can not keep up with her intellect. The sex is great, however; again, I can not keep up. Help!

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I have an older girlfriend (8 Years) and I have problems at times keeping up with her as well. What helps me? Go Oral!! Also make sure there are times where rather than you trying to please her, she pleases you and you get to sit back and enjoy. Get yours.
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cialis, levitra and viagra are all good. But you may want to take a breather, too! The first thing I would suggest is that you talk about it a bit. See if she would allow you to use a vibrator, and I don't mean just any vibrator, but something you both pick out at a store together.

i'll reply. i'm only 23. but first, my issue with age is that i met this irish girl who is like 26 and so it's like wierd being her man and being younger than her.. but i almost love her, feel a love or connection.. anyway that may go to shit..

ok.. first i hope you feel lucky for having a girl. not that you don't deserve or anything, but just appreciate the state.

try find aphrodisiacs..and i don't think pills.. i think working out, i think running, getting in shape if you're not, challenging yourself- the kind of stuff a kevin spacey would do.. that's what i think for what it's worth..

17 years and she's more mature than you?! That's more than just a few years younger. how come women are always more mature then men? Why is that, it's wierd.. 17 years, that's how long it took james joyce to write finnegan's wake..

so best of luck..

When I was 28 I dated an 18 year old for a few months. It just wasn't meant to be I guess - I was a software engineer, she was a stripper.

Sex was great, no doubt about that, but the age difference meant that we were at differenc points in our life. She was looking for long term, I was divorced and not wanting anything more than a roll in the hay.

The point is that an age difference can be a problem, or not. I agree with some of the other posts - try more oral sex, toys, new positions, etc.

Are you out of shape? If you are physically fit, working out six days a week there should not be an issue unless you ran 15 miles an hour before.

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Originally posted by touchetouche55:
There are 17 years between us. She is younger, I am 47. Much as I would like to, I can't keep up with her sex drive. She is beautiful, has her masters and getting her Phd. She is more mature than me, and I can not keep up with her intellect. The sex is great, however; again, I can not keep up. Help!

I have been involved with a younger woman for 1 year and we will be married in Feb. I will be 50 in June, she is 28. I cant perform quite as often or as vigorous as when I was younger, but the techniques I have perfected over my life have, according to her, more than made up for being able to have sex once or twice daily like some younger men can. She also says the fact that I have by far the thickest penis she has ever had, doesnt hurt either. She also nearly passes out sometimes when I perform oral sex on her,,, some of her orgasms last 30+ seconds,,,so hey guy, if you have honed your skills through the years, loosen up, OLD GUYS RULE !!!

Cool materhead! I got to ask though - how do you handle your differences in generational culture? I know that when I was dating a younger woman after my divorce, we eventually drifted apart because we just didn't care so much for the same entertainment, etc.

Or is that even an issue for you?

actually the age difference, culturally isn't a issue at all. I have diverse interests, many of which don't fit being categorized as old, and she, is one of those people that although young physically, seems to have been born in the wrong generation,, does that make any sense at all.

First wife...now ex...was 10 years my junior. Being active, and accused of being much younger than my years, that wasn't a problem.
Her sex drive was lower than mine.

Jump ahead to '02. Got with a woman who was 49 to my 51. Had the highest sex drive of any woman I've ever known. If there is such a thing as a nymphomaniac, it was she. No problem keeping up though...and the only little blue pill I had to take was Paxil for depression.
Those were the days!!!

i don't think age matters really. and i think i understand what u are saying that the girl may be in the wrong generation. i've been told that before too.

She's 30, that's not so bad. Usually, women at that age have a pretty good idea of what they are looking for. If she were 22 it would be another matter. I wouldn't worry about the sex thing too much and you might want to be cautious about trying to introduce sex toys into the equation. If she were looking for another 30 year old, she could certainly find one but she knows your age and has apparently decided that you are what she wants.