So, I'm walking to my car, heading up to the top level of the parking garage, when this totally hot chick whose up in front of me stops, waits for me to catch up, and just starts chatting with me.

We talked all the way to our section of the garage, and she said "talk to you later" as she walked off.

I mean, WTF? Good thing I love my wife, or I'd be tempted (I mean, even more than I was).

Man, you lucky SOB! The only time a nice looking gal chats me up anymore is if she is paid to (I mean like a waitress or something!).

Please let us know if this happens again so the rest of us can live vicariously through your adventures.

And to think I assumed that living in Kansas would be boring............

Well, after work yesterday we arrived at the stairs together (we work on the same floor) and walked all the way to our parking level together. We introduced ourselves and had a nice chat.

Did I mention that she's smokin' hot?

My world......

I ran into a lady I used to work with a couple of days ago. This gal looks like a dude, and has a laugh like a hyena.

Wanna trade?

Good luck to you my friend! I know you don't want anything to come of this, but it must sure make you feel good to be noticed. Of course, she could just be working her way up to invite to her Amway meeting...........

Right on - I've been working out, losing weight, etc, and it's nice to be noticed.

I wouldn't risk my marriage for this gal, regardless of how hot she is, but it is definitely an ego boost to have her flirt with me.

As to your "friend", I think I'll keep what I have, thanks though

Well, hot chick and I still talk, but I made it clear that I'm not going to ask her out.

As we're walking in the parking garage the other day I ask what she has planned for the weekend. She looks me straight in the eye and says "not a thing". I say that I'm booked up all weekend. That ended that.

But....

Yesterday I was walking down the hall and a co-worker (attractive 20-something gal) was about 20 feet behind me and gave a little wolf-whistle. Good God, if I wore that Axe cologne I'd be attacked or something.

What a wonderful thing it does for a persons ego to know they've still "got it."

I applaud you! I don't know that I would have been able to say anything at all if some nice looking gal told me she had no plans for the weekend and gave me a look. Probably would have passsed out!

It was tougher than you can imagine. She clearly wanted me to say something else, but two things will always keep me back:

1) I'm married, and want to stay that way, AND
2) I don't fish off the company pier (been there, don't want that mess again).

this happened once in my company (married man, equally married female had an affair. womens husband found out, punched out man). because the man was an assistant manager, he was ****canned as it could lead to negative work environment.

Well, since I'm not officially management, nor even in this gal's department, that wouldn't be an issue.

But many years ago I did date someone from work (I was between marriages at the time). While it didn't exactly blow up in my face, it was strange while it lasted and awkward when it ended.

I like this word"No job is beneath a man's dignity as long as it is honest and supports his family" thanks.

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Well, since I'm not officially management, nor even in this gal's department, that wouldn't be an issue.

But many years ago I did date someone from work (I was between marriages at the time). While it didn't exactly blow up in my face, it was strange while it lasted and awkward when it ended.

gotta say i dated one girl for whom i was her boss back in college. the sex in the stockroom was awesome!!! mercifully this relationship ended after i left that job.

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Hey, I'm doing all the heavy lifting here:

Today I'm walking down the stairs and notice an attractive woman ahead of me, in fact she's already going through the fire door. I see that she glances up at me as she does so.

I go through the door way, and she's waiting on the other side looking back at the door, and smiles at me when I come through. No verbal flirting, just a "hi" when I catch up to her.