I am really curious about this... I was with a guy for two years, we were both virgins when we met. We broke up about 6 months ago. Since then, I slept with one guy until I had met this other guy and a few nights ago we had sex, bringing my total to 3.
Ok, so my first boyfriend and I, we figured things out and I thought it was great. The second guy, it was a little better but I was drunk so couldn't really say. Now, this third guy, it was completely different. He was a little older than me and he really knew what he was doing. It made me realise my first boyfriend and sexual partner was really bad in bed. But then I thought, he only ever had sex with me, that is why he wasn't so great... I must be really bad too!!
So, a question for any guys and girls... What makes a girl good in bed? I'm talking technique here, practical stuff. I know there is a lot of other parts to this answer like body confidence etc. but I need to know if what I've been doing is right... I mean it feels right and the guy has an orgasm but what is good for men in bed? I must sound very stupid and I know most of this answer but I just had it on my mind.
I know what made my first boyfriend bad, he didn't really have any stamina and he often came relatively quickly and wasn't very willing to try new positions.
So, a girl can just lie there or she can... please finish sentence!
Posts: 1 | Location: Ireland | Registered: October 01, 2007
personally, i like it when the women at least acts like she wants to be there. if she lies there like a dead fish i think that i maybe i am not pleasing her (when i know better than that.
Maybe the best thing a woman can do to be "good in bed" is to be more active herself in the process. Like John1520 said, act like you want to be there, not just lie there. Men are very visual. Do more that will visually show him you are enjoying and want him to enjoy. More use of your body and appendages. Women on top is great because it gives a good show for the man underneath. Complements are not as good as sounds of enjoyment. Only use words if you want to have him do something or to ask what you can do. To me, there is nothing sexier than a woman who wants to be there and physically wants to take part in the action.
What makes her good in bed is if she enjoys it..By it I mean everything giving, recieving pleasure...A women who lays there and does nothing isn't an enjoyable experience. the same as a guy who only worries about his own orgasm isn't enjoyable to a woman. It's about feeling good and making someone else feel good at the same time.
Sex is a team sport (unless you've been benched and spend most your time in the batting cages). Nothing is sexier (as has already been stated) than a woman who is enjoying the time spent. And again, as stated above, there is nothing worse than when your partner "isn't in to it," or when the guy is in it for nothing than a "pit stop". Anything new is good, positions, "toys", my wife isn't into "movies" so those are out, a woman who isn't afraid to "take a chance" is incredibley sexy.
Jon
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